Every moment

Arguments...happen in every relationship... whether it is a poison that bring damages to relationship or a medicine that strengthen our relationship, all depend on us..

argument makes us understand each other more, helps us to express our feelings and thoughts, creates a chance to learn to appologize and to forgive...isn't it great?

but well, it was really hard for us to get through arguments ...both of us have the principles to hold onto...thank God that He helps us to grow in this area where emotions have been stirring up so strong within us which had destroyed our wisdom to LOVE each other...

Thank God for His grace that now we become even sweeter than ever after all the arguments..and it is blessing-counting time!

He came to my house earlier than espected, he texted me 'i am outside your house now' when i was sleeping.. yes.. he was taking initiative trying to make me feel better...I brought him into my room.. looking at his tired face, I pulled him to my bed, allowing him to have some rest.. he is really not used to speaking I think, but after some time, he hugged me with his arm, pushed me towards him and we kissed.. I felt so touched as I knew that he has been moving out of his comfort zone (putting down his pride and make peace with me)...

then we had our lunch at a restaurant, it was my bad that I actually brought up again the issue that we were arguing.. and undeniably it started...in a more gentle manner this time.. I was trying to control my emotions and think wisely, in the end, I successfully stopped that argument and debate by letting go my need and respect his opinion.. he played his part well too in trying to comfort me as he knew that though that argument had been putting to an end, I was not feeling happy or persuaded...

on the way toward PJ live arts, we had fun in the car, I was making so much noise but I was surprised that he actually enjoyed... he smiled all the way and at that time I realized that, the more he smiles, the more happy I am.. his smile is influential ! 

Finally we reached.. he has a unique attitude and action that I could never find from other guys so far: he so dared to ask people for directions! well, this is a good characteristic indeed, as I was dead tired to see guys insist on not asking stranger for help for the sake of keeping their image...please la...

the show started and ended fast,  this was not because of the duration of the theatre was short, it was because the every moment I am with him, time always flies fast...and it was time to separate, before we get into his car, he bought me my favourite oreo biscuits which brighten my next day when I was starving and rushing to church.. it cheered me up during my frustration...

I fed him KFC throughout the journey heading back to Seremban... it was really a memorable moment...we laughed like crazy, shouted like mad, talking nuisance...this was how we treasure each other..

thank you Jerald for participating into my life and together we try our very best to create the memories and ignite the moments...and thank you god for creating this character, Jerald while writing my life story...